My procedure was in the afternoon which I was a bit frustrated with as its a long few hours to sit around nil by mouth. I tell a lie though as I was supposed to be NBM from 7am and I did have a slice of toast at 9am then totally panicked and text my nurse friend who told me off but said I would be fine.
Off we went to the hospital, now I appreciate the NHS, I think its at breaking point and I believe in a few years time they wont offer IVF on the NHS as its seen as a luxury, just because I appreciate the NHS does not mean I like it, I cannot stand the processes and the red tape that surrounds it .
We arrived at the hospital on time and went to the day surgery ward, there was no reception just a waiting room so we took a seat with around 6 other people waiting. I am still amazed by peoples lack of awareness of their surroundings, there was guy in the waiting room chatting loudly on his phone and another watching a Nigel Farage video on Facebook with the volume loud . I had to bite my tongue and I could see hubby’s vein in the side of his head throbbing already, oh dear its going to be a long few hours i thought to myself!
We only had to wait 10 minutes and the ward manager came in and said (in front of everyone) , the gynae registrar wants to see you, now I am not ashamed of what we are having and indeed writing a blog puts it out there but I thought a ward manager would of had a bit more discretion, I felt like i may as well of had a sign over my head to saying “here to have my bits sorted”
I went an sat down with the registrar who advised that they did not have a bed for me and there was another lady that was having a procedure that would take 4 hours so if they couldn’t find my a bed before they called for her I would not get seen for at least 5 hours or so, she said another option would be to have extended recovery and be discharged from the recovery bay, do you see my issue with the NHS ! She asked me a few details and went through the consent form, whilst we were going through that Dr D called and advised she was ready for me, she also said to the registrar something about fitting a coil (i could hear her on the phone). The registrar added this to the consent form (which i had already signed) but didn’t go into more detail and to be honest I didn’t ask as I was totally bricking it.
The ward manager came in and said they had thought I was having key hole surgery but as I am not they have a bed for me but she would have to admit me at the nurses station and wanted to do it quick in case the other ward sent the patient that needed the 4 hour surgery. So there I was at the nurses station doing my own blood pressure whilst she was fitting me for stockings . She was a lovely nurse who was on her day off, again a NHS flaw.
The ward manager called down to theatre for them to collect me and they hadn’t come so she went and found the porter herself, bless her she really didn’t want me to wait . I gave the hubby a kiss and I was wheeled through the public corridor into the lift, this was due to the theatre lift being broken as it had asbestos in it and apparently the trust wont pay for it to be fixed. Again the NHS…..
I met the anaesthetist who put my cannula in, I still hadn’t seen Dr D, I thought she may of seen me before my procedure but never mind I thought to myself I will see her after.
When I came round I felt vile! I have had a lot of General Anaesthetic’s and this was my third in a year and normally I am fine coming round. My throat was so sore, I felt really sick and my tummy was really hurting. The nurse gave me some anti sickness and some morphine . After around 30 minutes I was wheeled back to the ward. I still had not seen Dr D, I thought she may of come by to tell me what they had done, found etc but nothing ! The nurse came in and gave me a leaflet on the coil and a sheet of paper which said what I had done but she didn’t explain it, I let google do that for me !
I wanted to get out of there so forced myself to go to the loo and made hubby eat the biscuits they had given me. There was 3 other people on the ward, a girl chatting on her phone , I learnt all about her sons birthday cake , a girl opposite who was having her appendix out she was with her dad and boyfriend and again no respect for others they were loudly swearing, joking etc . I have a mouth of a sewer at the best of times but I thought they could respect their surroundings!
The nurse agreed to discharge me as long as I had eaten (thanks hubby!) We got home around 7pm which I didn’t think was too bad. I was still smarting over Dr D not coming to see me! I can only put it down to the pressures on the NHS staff however I will ask her why when I see her on the 15th for next steps.
I would like to say I cannot fault the care the nurses give the patients, they are under immense pressure and it shows , but also their desire to care shines through 100 times more than the stress. I blame the people at the top , the people in suits making decisions about a institution that they have probably never spent a day in the life of.
The pain was not great, like a stabbing pain in my tummy but they said to take paracetamol and Ibuprofen . I had also developed a numb tongue and when I looked I had two ulcers on my tongue which can be caused by the blade inserting the tube, great.
I googled why they would fit a coil and found it could be to thicken my womb lining as before Dr D had said my womb lining was thin after the 2 miscarriage procedures so am hoping it will not be in long as it makes me feel nauseous and I hate the idea of something being inside me , its really making me hate my body even more !
A bit of a long post today so if you got this far thank you and I will update after my appointment on the 15th February.